Note: Different strokes for different folks. Every farmer knows you need a stick to move a cow. However, raise a stick to horse and you will get either a fight or flight response. Be kind to a horse, and the horse will move for you. Be kind to a cow and you might as well talk to a wall.

People have different personalities. What moves one disgusts the other. In other words, the golden rule does not always work. Not everybody is like you. So if you treat everyone like you would like them to treat you, then you may be in for a surprise.